<3Trisha
Nothing bothers me more than people who belittle others’ problems. Well.. I guess that’s not entirely true considering how much I hate how people belittle themselves because of their own problems—you know, people who just beg for a pity party rather than accepting or changing things. I guess I fucked up on the first part because there really is no “more” or “less” bothersome for me. Needless to say, belittling pisses me off. I firmly believe that I’m doing my job in keeping a harmonious world by doing my best to be nice to everyone because I have no idea what the fuck they go through, but it would be huge help if every once in a while, people would make “being nice” a little easier for me. I don’t think your issues are bigger or smaller than mine, but there really is no reason for you to go around and beg for people to feel bad for you. I think that having anyone “feel bad” or pity me is anything but a compliment or a sign of affection. I think that feeling pity is nothing but a projection of the kind of situation that I never want to find myself in. So once you find me pitying you, then that means I think you’re in such a fucked up situation that I will do my best to never ever be where you are—but if I care enough about you or don’t have any issues of my own then I will do my best to help you cus I never want to see a good friend down.
